THE EDGE OF HUMAN BEHAVIOUR
How To Stop People Using You
Most people don’t get used because they’re weak.
They get used because they’re capable, conscientious, and inclined to cooperate — often without realising where cooperation quietly turns into self-betrayal.
This book is about learning where that edge is.
THE CORE IDEA
Human behaviour rarely crosses lines loudly.
It erodes them quietly.
It shows up as:
tolerating things that don’t feel right
over-explaining instead of setting a boundary
carrying more than your share because “it’s easier”
feeling uneasy or resentful without knowing why
The Edge of Human Behaviour helps you recognise those moments early — before resentment hardens or relationships fracture.
Not by becoming tougher.
But by becoming clearer.
WHAT THIS BOOK IS (AND IS NOT)
This book is:
psychologically grounded
practical and observational
calm rather than confrontational
focused on discernment, not blame
This book is not:
a collection of power tactics
a guide to manipulation
motivational hype
therapy in book form
The aim is simple:
to help you stay decent without being used.
WHO THIS IS FOR
This book is for people who:
feel drained after certain interactions
are reliable and capable — and often over-relied upon
struggle with guilt when setting boundaries
sense something is off, but can’t quite name it
want strength without becoming cynical or hard
If that describes you, this book will likely feel familiar.
What You Will Learn
In The Edge of Human Behaviour, you’ll learn how everyday interactions drift off course — and how to respond before resentment takes hold.
Specifically, you’ll learn how to:
spot subtle manipulation before it escalates
recognise the instincts that get exploited in decent people
identify the moment you cross your own internal edge
set boundaries without drama, guilt, or justification
stay firm without becoming hard
This is practical insight designed for real situations, not ideal ones.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Robert Dawson is a retired clinical psychologist with over 40 years of experience working with individuals, families, and organisations.
Across decades of practice, teaching, and observation, he noticed a recurring pattern:
good people often struggle not because they lack insight — but because they lack a clear framework for understanding everyday manipulation and boundary erosion.
The Edge of Human Behaviour distils those observations into a short, accessible guide for navigating complex human dynamics with clarity and self-respect.
THE BOOK
The Edge of Human Behaviour
How to Stop People Using You
Format: eBook (PDF / EPUB)
Style: clear, conversational, psychologically informed
Structure: short chapters designed for reflection
QUIET INVITATION
If you’ve ever thought,
“Something about this doesn’t feel right — but I can’t explain why,”
this book is written for that moment.
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